When anyone gets married, they always hope that it’s “happily ever after.” It is not surprising that no one wants their marriage to end in a messy divorce and end up becoming another statistic.
Unfortunately, divorce is all too common in this day and age, and infidelity is one of the main reasons for why a couple decides to call it quits. More specifically, infidelity is the leading cause of divorce as it gets instigated by a staggering 15% of married women, and 25% of married men. Thus, statistically speaking, husbands tend to cheat more than wives.
No one wants to discover that their partner is cheating on them, particularly through snooping around or finding something amiss. If you find yourself in this unfortunate situation, it is important to know the options available to you. Take the time to be informed about the different ways on how to investigate a cheating husband.
Here are five secret methods on how to investigate a cheating husband and find out if he’s cheating on you:
1. Watch for any odd behaviour
Although watching for a change in behaviour patterns is not a full proof method of investigating a cheating spouse, it is one of the primary ways to determine that something is amiss. Odd behaviour that is temporary, is likely related to various external factors.
For instance, your husband can be more on edge because of stress at work, a sick parent, or a sully teenager. His uncharacteristic behaviour will come and go. However, if you are sensing long-term odd behaviour that is particularly evasive or secretive, then something else could be up.
The key to nipping your speculations in the bud is to have an honest conversation with your partner. Ongoing speculations and stress on your part will not do you or your husband any good. Indeed, it is best to approach your worries head on, and sit your partner down for an honest conversation to determine what’s bothering him.
2. Check his web browser history
Although it does not feel good to snoop around to determine what your husband is up to, it could sometimes be necessary. The best way to get a sense of what your partner is doing, is glance at the browser history of your computer.
This approach would only work if you share a computer with your partner, as it is not recommended to attempt to break into their individual, password protected devices. Before you jump to any conclusions upon seeing questionable websites, it is important to have a conversation with your husband.
Indeed, you will never truly understand the rationale for certain behaviours until you have a conversation with your spouse.
3. Put a GPS tracker on his vehicle
Putting a GPS tracker on your husband’s vehicle is definitely a large step towards trying to investigate suspicious behaviour. Before you take this leap, it is important that you consider the consequences of the tracker being found, and having to explain the use of it after the fact.
GPS trackers are invaluable tools with providing information around a person’s whereabouts. They are also small and size, and surprisingly affordable. You can even find many models on popular shopping sites such as Amazon.
4. See if your husband is protective of devices
Cheating spouses tend to be more up in arms if you try to touch their phones, computers, tablets or any other personal devices. This is due to the fact that they may have some personal and potentially inappropriate information in them.
If you see that your partner is acting strange and protective around their devices, it may be time to sit down for a talk. Before you assume anything, it is important to spend time discussing your concerns face-to-face.
5. Get help from a professional investigator
If you want to take more drastic measures around determining the truth around your husband’s behaviour, then you can consider reaching out to a private investigation company. Many private investigators are former police officers or special operative agents, who have extensive training in the field. Indeed, many solely deal with infidelity cases.
In order to get in touch with a legitimate investigator, do some preliminary research. Start out with a simple internet search, read reviews, and see if you can locate anyone through word of mouth. Before you go with an investigator, it is wise to set up an initial consultation to discuss logistics and cost.